NOT EVERYONE HAS TO UNDERSTAND

Not everyone has to understand who you are and what you are about. Even if they want to, they may not ever see the real you that exists within.

It is funny because who doesn't want to know the person they spend a lot of time with? You think you know them, and on some levels, of course, you do, but for the most part, people WANT TO KNOW YOU, but are bothered some how, that they actually, really don't!

Not to say that they don't know anything about you, but there are parts of you that are sacred, and private, and well, why have to explain? Isn't the best part of being who you are, unexplainable? The people who really get you don't have to ask or wonder why anything about you? They just quietly get it, or quietly don't and are OK with that?

It is only if someone has some sort of attachment to wanting to be the one to get you, that keeps them so far from NOT getting you.

Does that make sense?

Be who you are and don't care what anyone says or thinks, and if you remain who you are, people will either remain in your life, or they won't. They will be sick of you, or sick of their own skin.

If they hang out, maybe it wasn't so bad after all.

LET PEOPLE BE WHO THEY ARE! I know, including me, we all have opinions about others, but who doesn't? And if you say you don't, I might call you a liar.

Everyone has opinions, and it is natural and normal.

Opinions can be separate than judgements. Have an opinion but don't be attached to it.

Then it becomes self righteous.

I can't say that I won't have an opinion about anything. I'm Italian, strong willed, and a Scorpio. I can add a few other nouns, but why, they go under the same umbrella.

Have opinions!!! It's healthy!! Go for it!! But when it comes to defining someones soul, you better take a back seat to the horses mouth. That horse ain't lyin'.

Don't try to steal words from the horses mouth and stick in some other kind of language that a horse doesn't know.

A horse is a horse, of course!

The best part of being in these human bodies is that, for me anyway, can't speak for everyone, everything is individual. Be who the hell you want, and don't apologize. Go for the gold of what you think, what you want to do, and what you want to say, after all, it is YOUR LIFE. That is what I tell myself. Don't worry about what the majority of people think about you. The predominant factor will remain that, they are off base, and some, not. Who cares, no matter what the outcome! No one will ever know exactly where you are, and that is a little treasure that I find to be endearing and sacred, to be honest.

Sacred beyond belief.

So, be sacred in your acts. Whether it is an act for yourself, or an act to get to know someone. Be sacred in knowing that you may not know, and you know, you may know, but nonetheless, it is a nuetral thought, and knowing that you can sway either way, will bring you to a place of enlightenment. Meaning...........really...............WHO FRIGIN CARES?

Sayanara everyone. It's a good night!

And........I don't wanna care........live your life free and hopefully I am a small part of it.

Warm gushy thoughts of just being, with everyone I exist with............

I am grateful.

Love,
Gabriela